Hi friend,
There is a huge difference between managing the work and becoming a manager of the team doing the work. Management seems exciting: more influence, more prestige, maybe a fancier title on LinkedIn. But the truth? Managing people isn’t just a promotion — it’s a transformation. It changes how you spend your time, how you make decisions, and, in some cases, who you sit with at lunch.
No one prepares you for this shift; when the people you used to vent with now report to you. When the hallway conversations get quiet. When you feel a little alone at happy hour.
This part is hard. It’s messy. And it’s not talked about enough.
Leadership isn’t about people liking you. It’s about making decisions that protect and serve your team, even when they’re uncomfortable. It’s about acting on behalf of the organization, even when it means sitting at a different table or not being invited to some at all. Leaders build trust through authenticity and consistency; by championing the decisions that need to be made, even if you disagree with the outcome.