Hi friend,
It’s easy to get caught up in the grind of running the business or doing the work. Forecasts, team meetings, deliverables, fires. But leadership isn’t just about working in the business; it’s about stepping back to work on the business and, just as importantly, with peers who push you to think differently.
Peers matter so much. Not the ones where everyone nods politely, but the ones where you’re challenged. Where someone asks the uncomfortable question you’ve been avoiding. Where you’re reminded you’re not alone in the struggle, even if the problems are different.
I started my series of travel through the Fall and Q4 on an inspiring note at Trans4mers, an industry peer group I’ve been a part of for nearly a decade. Most recently, we met at the Cisco office and toured the renovations at 1 Penn Plaza in New York City.
During the tour, the guide made a comment that stuck with: “If you have a full day of meetings and need a closed door, don’t come to the office. That’s not what this space is for.”
It was an a-ha moment. How often do we attend meetings, workshops, or off-sites, yet keep our phone face-up, our inboxes running, and our teams pinging? How often are we physically present but mentally elsewhere?
Peer groups are the leadership equivalent of tearing down walls and adding windows — a reminder that new light changes everything.